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gabby's avatar

absolutely loved this! my self-optimization phases have ironically produced some of what i would consider to be my most harmful "vices" - incessant self-criticism, withdrawal from social life, self-absorption, etc etc. also! the pipeline from religious upbringing to hyper-optimal routines is very, very real. thank you for another thought-provoking essay!

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Megan Lee's avatar

Beautifully written!!! I’ve had the most “vices” summer I’ve had in years (ever?) and was feeling guilty for it. Why? I fucking *love* the joy of living, experiencing, being. A “virtuous” life devoid of pleasure is a terrible way to live. Here’s to living the life that light us up. 🖤✨💃

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